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This morning I received a call from my long time friend and former Chairman of the Exodus International Board of Directors, Bob Ragan. He relayed the very sad news that Alan Medinger, Founder of Regeneration Ministries, had passed away early this morning. Alan was a dear friend and mentor. He is survived by his wife, Willa and their 4 children who all have families. He is also survived by thousands of men and women who were deeply impacted by his life and service.
Alan was the first to hold the position of Executive Director of Exodus International the position that is now entitled President. I will never forget the amazing letter I received from Alan when I was hired for my position in 2001. He was on the hiring committee that recommended me. His words and blessing as he passed the torch to me will always be encouraging and dear.
I will miss Alan greatly but rejoice with his family that he is in a place of great joy--a place that all of us have the opportunity to go if we have a relationship with Jesus Christ. If you don't know Jesus, you can.
For more information on Alan Medinger and to see a note from Josh Glaser, Executive Director of Regeneration MInistries go to the Regeneration Ministries site.
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Recent events involving youth leader Dawson McAllister, Clear Channel Communications and Exodus International have been spotlighted in numerous blogs and publications over the past few days. While Exodus is no stranger to controversy, we are usually reluctant to make public statements critical of other organizations or leaders, particularly those for whom we have high personal regard. But the very public nature of this situation leaves us no choice but to clarify our feelings and position on the matter.
On Sunday April 11, a 22 year old gay blogger named Greg Kimball called into McAllister’s syndicated radio talk show Dawson McAllister Live, posing as a 16 year old seeking advice about his homosexuality. The show’s representative referred him to Exodus, which was listed on McAllister’s website as a partner. (Other partners on the site include Focus on the Family and Campus Crusade for Christ.) Kimball, apparently outraged that a youth-oriented radio show would refer people to Exodus, went public with his discovery, resulting in a number of communications to Clear Channel demanding they take action.
Clear Channel subsequently informed Dawson that he
would need to remove Exodus’ name from his referral list. Citing its
non-discriminatory policy, the
company defended what many would view as censorship, stating that because
of their commitment to diversity, they expect that “listeners who call (Dawson
McAllister Live) be treated in a manner consistent with our corporate
commitments to diversity.” Left with a choice between losing favor with Clear
Channel by maintaining a relationship with Exodus, or maintaining media
visibility by severing our ties, he chose the latter. On Thursday April 15 he
informed us personally that, while he loves and supports Exodus, our name was
now deleted from his partner’s list, and he will no longer refer to us. That
decision has been well publicized, requiring a response.
Our esteem for Dawson is not in question here. His achievements are remarkable – <<over 1 million copies of his books and manuals sold; a 15 year broadcasting career; a radio show boasting over 140 stations – and I’ve made no secret of his impact on me. In 1991 we met in Lakeland, Florida. I was 19 at the time, and it was through his personal referral that I found Exodus International. Dawson McAllister was the catalyst for my journey, which eventually led me to direct the organization he’s now unwilling to officially associate with. (Could the irony be any more bitter?)
But respect notwithstanding, it’s
troubling to see any Christian-led
organization allow itself to be guided by the demands of pro-gay
advocates. While Exodus is the group being marginalized in this case, it's the
freedom to express a traditional viewpoint of sexuality that's really at stake,
raising the obvious question: Who's Next? Should all on-air ministries who teach
that homosexuality falls short of God’s will expect a knock on the door,
demanding they either water it down or close shop? And if that knock comes, is
the truth about human sexuality really a negotiable item? Is the definition of
marriage and family so small a matter to Christian leaders that they’ll avoid
inconvenient truth (or inconvenient relationships) to keep their audience? If
so, we wonder what other Biblical truths are up for negotiation when on-air
visibility is at stake.
We appreciate the need one group may have to distance itself from another. We’ve made that painful decision ourselves, when we’ve realized that differences in belief or approach were so great that we had no choice but to severe ties with those we could longer in good faith support. So if an associate no longer shares our position on homosexuality, we respect his need to break ties with us. Likewise, if someone shares our viewpoint but objects to the way we implement it, we hope they’ll discuss their concerns with us so we can consider them and, if no agreement can be reached, we wish them the best as they move on.
But according to both Dawson and his CEO (who also
spoke with me by phone) this severance had nothing to do with disagreement. The
CEO, in fact, assured me they still love Exodus and
believe in what we are doing, which bothers me all the more. When
organizational relations end due to irreconcilable differences of belief or
practice, that makes sense. But when someone publicly dumps you then privately
whispers “We still believe in what you’re doing”, isn’t some kind of
double-mindedness at play? Both of them also stressed to me their desire to
stay on Clear Channel, which is understandable. But at what cost? When a
Christian leader is forced to choose between truth and market numbers, should
market numbers really be the deciding factor?
Yes, according to Dawson’s CEO, who told
me that only 1% of their callers over the past 15 months had phoned in with
this issue. "Should we forsake the 99 percent
for the 1 percent?" he asked. Had he remembered the parable of the lost
sheep, in which a good shepherd left the 99 for the 1, he might have answered
his own question.
And there’s the rub. If Dawson McAllister was a secular, non-Christian leader, his priorities would make sense. But if he serves the One who warned “Woe unto you when all men speak well of you”, and follows in the steps of the Apostle who said, “If I seek the favor of men, I should not be a servant of Jesus Christ”, then his response to pressure from gay activists and Clear Channel is distressing. We earnestly hope it will be the exception, not the rule, when similar pressure is exerted on other visible leaders.
As for us, we’ll continue our commitment to Biblically based truth regarding homosexuality, and to that 1% that is, to us, precious. And on a personal note, I’ll admit that yes, I am sad, yet I am determined. I'm not giving up or in. You can count on me, 1%. I'm for you, and both I and my colleagues at Exodus will continue to tell you the truth about God's never-ending grace and mercy.
To Contact Clear Channel:
When you call or write (OR BOTH), do not simply accept referrals to Premiere Radio--register your concern BOTH places.
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Orlando, FL- A new book, released by Harvest House Publishers today, offers practical advice and honest information on the process of leaving a gay life to pursue one that reflects the Christian faith. Alan Chambers, President of Exodus International, the world’s largest ministry to those personally dealing with unwanted same-sex attraction, has written his second book Leaving Homosexuality: A Practical Guide for Men and Women Looking for a Way Out.Chambers says the book marks a departure from the ambiguity of the “change is possible” message and details what kind of change is possible for someone struggling with unwanted homosexual feelings. Leaving Homosexuality clarifies expectations and tackles complicated questions with candor and pragmatism. Chambers shares insight from his own life on how to build authentic community, how to process and experience healing from unforgiveness and overcome the power of sexual addiction.
“This book is an honest look at what it means to painfully surrender your life to Jesus Christ and experience real transformation,” said Chambers. “While the road has not been easy, I’ve experienced joy and satisfaction that I never knew was possible. My hope is that this book encourages others living beyond homosexuality with the hope that this journey can yield unexpected promise and blessing.”
Chambers’ first book, God’s Grace & the Homosexual Next Door: Reaching the Heart of the Gay Men and Women in Your World was published in 2007 and details how individuals and churches can become a haven for homosexuals seeking freedom from same-sex attraction.
TO OBTAIN A RELEASE COPY OF THE BOOK OR SCHEDULE AN INTERVIEW CONTACT:
- For broadcast media: Christianne Debysingh, [email protected], (888) 468-4108
- For print/internet media: Dave Bartlett, [email protected], (877) 307-0662
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Founded in 1976, Exodus International is the largest Christian organization dealing with homosexual issues in the world today. With over 230 affiliates in its network, Exodus is a dynamic outreach ministry dedicated to sharing the hope of freedom through the power of Jesus Christ.
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My wife, kids and I have been praying almost daily for Barack, Michelle, Sasha, and Malia Obama since they became the First Family Elect of the United States. We had voted for John McCain and, frankly, were very nervous about an Obama presidency. During the campaigning process I was very vocal about my support for McCain and my opposition to Obama. This is the United States and I am very thankful for the right to speak my mind freely. People of every race, creed, color, orientation, political affiliation, and religion should always have that right. There is no harm in having or expressing an opinion.
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A few months ago I stumbled across a blog that intrigued me. The post I read was insightful and I forwarded it to the entire Exodus Leadership Team worldwide. I went back the next day and the next and finally decided that it was going to be one of the only blogs that I was going to read each day. I am so glad that I made that decision. You can check it out for yourself.
Last week as I read that blog I was surprised to see that its author, Steven Furtick, who is also the pastor of Elevation Church, was hosting Ted and Gayle Haggard during the weekend service. I was pleasantly surprised. As I stated in an email to Steven's assistant, "I am grateful when any church with so much to lose does something so risky for the sake of grace."
On the Elevation site I found the MP3 of last weeks service and wanted to share it here. It is rare to hear a pastor share my thoughts on this issue almost word for word, but Steven did.
Let me know what you think.
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Tags: Elevation Church, grace, homosexuality, homosexuality, National Association of Evangelicals, scandal, sin, Steven Furtick, Ted and Gayle Haggard, truth
There has been a lot of talk lately about Uganda and their laws which
criminalize homosexual behavior. This is not a position that I
understand or support. And as I have been in touch over the course of the
last month with numerous church officials in Uganda I have shared my thoughts
on that--some agree with me and others do not. Thinking about Uganda and
talking with people there about this caused me to wonder what the laws are like
in other deeply religious countries. My friend Randy Thomas did a quick
search and found the following:
BRAZIL
Report:
One LGBT Person Killed Every Two Days in Brazil
IRAQ
Fliers,
Videos Reveal Ongoing Death Campaign Against Iraqi Gays Iraqi Gay Men Face
Lives of Hell
Report:
Iraqi Militia Killing Gay Men with Painful Anal Glue Torture
http://www.edgeboston.com/index.php?ch=news&sc=&sc2=news&sc3=&id=90236
IRAN
A life or
death decision - Mehdi Kazemi is a gay teenager from Iran.
He sought
sanctuary in Britain after his boyfriend was hanged for homosexuality. So why
is Britain so determined to send him back to Tehran – to almost certain
execution?
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/a-life-or-death-decision-792058.html#a
So, while some
others are only talking about Uganda---probably because they want to
link it to Exodus--I was grateful that www.Towleroad.com was covering a
multitude of stories on the atrocities being carried out against gay or
perceived-to-be-gay people around the world.
So what's the answer in these countries? I don't know. Sadly, there seems to be no good way to respond because coming at this from a Christian viewpoint in Muslim countries is pointless. And while others jump on the bandwagon of the United Nations and government sanctions I cannot support going in to a country and forcing them to deal with this issue as the gay activist community would suggest.
Like what is needed with the issue of bullying in the public school, can't a broad coalition of non-like-minded people band together and say, despite our agenda (and we all have one), "violence against people who are different from what is considered normal is wrong and must end." No religious or social cause is promoted, just love and respect for our fellow man.
Is that possible in today's agenda driven society? I'm interested. I really am.
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A recent hullabaloo over a
conference in Uganda has had me thinking and praying about some things. The conference centered on a conservative, presumably
Christian, response to gay issues in that country. In Uganda, homosexual
behavior is punishable by imprisonment and there is talk of stiffening the
penalties. Several American gay activists and even some conservative
Christians have raised a ruckus about the event and rightfully so. Uganda's
policies seem reprehensible. Publicly exposing or arresting gay-identified
men and women for homosexual behavior or forcing them to undergo therapy is a
true violation of free will and a compassionless transgression.
I'm not an expert on Ugandan law or even on
U.S. law. I am, however, a Christian and can share my perspective on an issue
that I believe transcends legal and cultural boundaries. I know a few things relevant to this discussion.
For one, Christ came for all of us or He came for none of us. I know He loves us
equally regardless of our skin color, religious beliefs, affiliations or
orientations. Nothing can make Him love us more or less. I also
know that there is a right and a wrong as well as a good and an evil. I
know every single human being who has and ever will be born, aside from Jesus
Christ, of course, is a sinner in need of a Savior. And I also know that
love transcends hate.
About 40 years ago, the gay rights movement really
took off in America. The Stonewall riots occurred. Organized groups began
looking at how they could bring about social change in psychology, religion and
government. I'll freely admit they did an amazing job in accomplishing the
task. They were far more brilliant in how they capitalized on something deeper
and infinitely more significant - the hypocrisy, apathy, pride, division,
laziness, ignorance and un-Christlike attitudes that existed in the Christian
church.
Surprised to hear me say that? It may not make
me sound like much of a Christian, but I am. I'm a follower of Christ and
believe every word of the Bible is true and infallible. However, I have
to be honest. I am troubled by what I see as one of the most significant
failures in church history. I wasn't alive in the 60's and I barely remember
the early 70's, but I watched enough Christian television and took in enough
news in the 80's to know that the Christian church didn't experience its finest
moment at a time when gay individuals desperately needed to know God's
unconditional love. Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying that 100% of all
Christians or all churches failed, but if we are truly to be a united group as
the Bible suggests, then what one of us did wrong, we all did wrong. We must own
that, deal with it, turn away from it and move forward with humility, honesty
and compassion.
I will never forget the early days of the AIDS
epidemic. I remember reading about entire families that were run out of town
simply because a member of their family contracted AIDS through a blood
transfusion. One family in Belle Glade, Florida that had three
hemophiliac sons with AIDS were kicked out of school, forced out of their home
and subjected to cruel torture by angry mobs. I wondered where the Church
was. Then there was the story of young Ryan White who contracted AIDS from
tainted blood. Unfortunately, it wasn't the Church that became known for
embracing him and his single mother and sister - it was the gay
community. I applaud the gay community for doing what the Church should
have done.
I think of actors like Rock Hudson who was the
brunt of cruel jokes after his diagnosis with AIDS for being gay. I
remember the sermons I heard about the abominable sin of homosexuality - as if
it was the only abominable sin in the Bible. I vividly remember the
all-too-common sentiments I heard from many Christian people entrapped in
ignorance and fear who said, "Ship the gays all off to an island and let
them have at it" or "AIDS is God's judgment on the homosexual."
A dear friend of mine with two gay sons once said in response to that comment,
"Aren't you glad there isn't a cancer for a judgmental heart and vicious
tongue?" The horror stories are endless. And they served as an
open door that many gay activists walked through to obtain sympathy from a
detached and even ignorant society.
While Christians were pointing the finger at
homosexuals, many were shacking up with secretaries, shooting up in bathrooms
and paying for sex on the street. Hypocritical for sure. Many
Christians can tell you the story of Sodom and Gomorrah, but they don't know Romans
2:4 (NAS) states, “….the kindness of God leads you to repentance.” Many of our shortcomings, as a church, set the stage for they gay
rights movement that ensued.
I unapologetically believe what
the Bible says about homosexuality just as much as I believe what it says about
every other sin, too. I know Proverbs 6:16-19 by heart in a dozen
languages. You know that reference, right? It's the most famous
verse listing abominations:
"There are six things the
LORD hates, seven that are detestable to him: haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that
are quick to rush into evil, a false witness who pours out lies and a man who
stirs up dissension among brothers."
Ironically, there is no
reference to homosexuality. While there are plenty of other direct
references, I think every Christian needs look no further than their own heart
to see themselves in these verses. Lying tongues? Haughty eyes? We're all
guilty of those things and I'm thankful that the ground is level at the foot of
the Cross.
Most recently, our nation has
been engaged in marriage initiatives like Proposition 8 in California.
While I supported this initiative and all others that uphold what I believe is
God's intention for marriage, I have often wondered what things in California
might be like if the Church had spent the $39 million dollars they raised for
Proposition 8 to show the love of Christ to the gay community. The visual
impact of that overt gesture would be undeniable - Christians raising a small
fortune simply to show their love for gay people. I can't imagine. And I am
sad that I can't. Consequently, I believe that policies on social issues do
matter, but only because the people behind them do. Losing that truth means
losing the full heart of God. When conveying the heart of God becomes impossible to do in policy battles then we need to stay silent. And, if there is
a way to express the heart of God and forgo the policy battle altogether---even
if it is a much longer and more rigorous process—then by all means, choose
it. For instance, might there be a way to strengthen marriage as the
union of one man and one woman for one lifetime that isn’t reactionary and
based on policy? Even if such an effort took longer and was far more
labor intensive? Isn’t it always better to have a campaign for something
rather than one that is against? Just my honest questions here.
Confession is good for the soul,
they say. There's a reason for that. So, to my fellow Christians in Uganda,
California and elsewhere around the world, my suggestion as you engage in
social dialogue over this issue is this: pray, confess your own sins and
remember where you were before God found you. And to the gay community:
it is my great hope that we as a Christian church will give you no more reasons
to justifiably doubt God's love for you. I am sorry for the times when I have contributed to that.
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God's Grace for George Rekers & Jo-Vanni Roman
Cross-Posted from Exodus International Blog
It is being reported widely throughout the media that Dr. George Rekers, husband, father, NARTH Board Member, scholar, theologian and Baptist minister (to name just a few of the highlights), confirmed that he hired a 20 year-old man to accompany him on a 10-day European mission trip and extended vacation. As it turns out, that young man happens to be a prostitute, as well. And while there has been no allegation of sexual misconduct, Dr. Rekers actions, at best, lacked an enormous deal of discernment. At worst, he is guilty of leading a double life, even if just in motivation.
Despite the familiar human desire to throw the stone in my hand at Dr. Rekers, I cannot. He is a human who seems to have made a mistake. He is a Christian who seems to be guilty of practicing what he has preached against. It is that fact that alone causes the deepest feelings of anger to arise no matter what side of the debate one falls. Regardless of any sexual impropriety, his actions were not above reproach and that has hurt his, until now, excellent reputation. This fiasco has also fueled speculation and doubt about the lives of others who have chosen to pursue a life in Christ above their sexuality - people like me, and those I represent at Exodus. And while Dr. Rekers may be guilty of things beyond those he has admitted, he deserves no less grace than I or any in the gay community now reveling over what must feel like a victory beyond their wildest dreams in their campaign to prove that people affected by same-sex attraction cannot and should not do anything but embrace a narrow view of their same-sex attractions by adopting and celebrating a gay identity.
And, what about the young man, Jo-Vanni Roman, at the center of this controversy. The carnivorous gay bloggers and their followers seem most concerned with the downfall of a man, a marriage and a movement; not to mention the titillating photos and full bodily description of this boy barely out of high school. While I can put myself in the shoes of those who are angered by the potential hypocrisy of the Rekers’ story, I cannot understand the gay communities’ lack of regard for this 20 year-old boy who has been prostituting himself to anyone who “asks” and “pays”. While the gay community seems hell-bent on forcing everyone to be tolerant of their “just like everyone else” lives they seem completely incapable of showing Jo-Vanni Roman any compassion or care that this kid is so desperate for love or money or care that he would stoop to dehumanizing himself with anyone who can afford to use and abuse him. That’s no less disgusting.
Well, it’s time for the Church to rise up and show that the counterfeit really isn’t the best kind of community. While it has been common in the Christian community to cast stones, extend the left foot of fellowship and shoot our wounded; the tide is changing. And, I for one am inclined to extend a hand to George Rekers, the man, and offer him help. He is, after all, a husband and father. We have seen other devastating situations in families turn around. Maybe this is the crisis that will lead George Rekers to find the healing he has been looking for, but afraid to admit he needed.
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